1 year

Trevor and I have been married for 1 whole year. It's been a good year, looking back. We've loved every day and it's been tough some days but rewarding. Being married to Trevor is a breeze, he's such a nice guy it's hard not to love him. 

As the day went, we woke up and strolled on over to Einsteins Bagels and devoured warm, toasted bagels. Talking about what we were doing at that moment, that time last year which is totally ridiculous, just warp us back to High School everyone.

As a precursor, the night before (which I so cleverly planned) asked Trevor if he would like to go to the driving range, as tears surfaced.. not really but he was beaming and smiling like we he had just won The Master's. So mid morning the next day we made our way to Eaglewood Golf Course and I swear I should've had a leash, he was like that dog that gets to the dog park and can barely control himself. I was practically speed walking to keep up. Trevor has been so patiently asking me to go golfing for the full year of our married selves. So to say the least, he was happy. Thanks to my genes I'm not too bad at golf, and I had golfed right handed, which I'm convinced I'm a lefty but you know... I'm amphibious (as quoted by Charles Shackleford). To my surprise, I thoroughly enjoyed myself. Best stress reliever ever. It was like all my worry and anger and stress just flew away with the ball. So I have no problem with Trevor sharing his love of golf with me. I think I like it because it's a perfecting game, and it's individual. So win-win on that one. wahoo! 

Then we lounged for the day because I wasn't feeling all that great and made our way over to Sawadee Thai Restaurant for dinner, and it was delicious. I love thai and all it offers. It was a first for us to go to that place and it was money well spent. We were drooling over our sweet sticky mango rice, afterwards Trevor and I couldn't stop dreaming about it.

Then to top off the night we went and saw the highly recommended Cinderella and it was a dream! It was so beautiful, the costumes, the message. Trevor and I aren't normally one's for Disney type movies, but I can watch one and be good to go for a few years. But this was great and so well done, I would definitely see this one again. It was lovely. 

After 1 year I have seen a side of Trevor that I didn't see before, and then parts that fell together. Not being much a people person, it's nice to look forward to someone at the end of every day. He gets me, and I get him.

It's amazing how marriage works.

Marriage is beautiful / fun / sweet / hilarious / safe / enjoyable / hard / rewarding. 

So to my love, here's to many more years.